Confidence Coaching

A woman who believes in herself is simply unstoppable! Would you like to learn the art of Self-Confidence so you can step out, step up and make your mark in the world?

About Tori

Hi, I’m Tori. I help ambitious, Entrepreneur and Career women who are sick and tired of being Invisible, are done with fitting in, women who are ready to tap into their inner power, step out boldly and shine unapologetically.

Academically l am a Charted Global Management Accountant, yet a style freak at heart. I take pride in how I present myself,  I love helping bring transformation to other women in and out, and re-package them true to their worth, so they can step out boldly into their high callings.

For years l was held back with fear of failure, low self-esteem and poor confidence which I battled pretty much most of my life, but deep-down l had new l was made for more. I had dreams and visions and realized that none of these were going to manifest until l made a decision to face all my demons.

I invested over 7 years of my life post A-level to acquire my Management Accounting qualifications,


The defining moment for me came in 2017 April when I was in between jobs, I had come to the end of one contract and l got another job almost immediately, but l wasn’t required to start till 6weeks later. It was during this seemingly idle time that l started reflecting on my career and I realised that none of the few jobs I had in the past fulfilled me, “neither was the new one going to”, I thought to myself, and suddenly I remembered the joy and excitement I have always felt when I helped other women with styling advise, “it just makes me come alive”, I thought to myself, “I am called to do this!”

l reconnected with myself and allowed myself to dream again. With those thoughts on mind, l stirred myself up in such a deep way and the fire and passion inside of me began to burn so brighter that l couldn’t contain it. It was in this six-week period l made l firm decision to follow my heart and I immediately researched and found the highest callibre training colleges. I applied for, trained in the areas of  Style Coaching and Confidence Coaching. Months later l was an Internationally Accredited Style Graduate and qualified Confidence Coach


I set up my Business soon after graduation dedicated to helping ambitious  women to tap into their inner power, move from feeling invisible to feeling and looking irresistible through authentic Style Coaching, Confidence or Self-love mastery and Personal Branding, so they can have success and fulfilment in their  lives.


I’ve worked with many private clients, face to face and virtual, spoken in group coaching sessions. I work with Entrepreneur and professional women just like you who are ambitious, yet feel unsure, powerful women who know that they are made for more and just do not know how to create a Style that is authentic to who they are. Women are sick and tired of feeling invisible and willing to make the necessary changes with my guidance in order to shine effortlessly and see the desired breakthroughs in their lives. I typically work with:

Women who would like to create to create a Personal Image that empowers them and is true to their worth

Women who are stuck in a Style rut and would like to create a unique and authentic style

Women with low self- Confidence and would like to boost their self confidence

Women who feel invisible in their career or business and would like to enhance their visibility

Women who would like to look good on the outside and feel great on the inside

Women who would like to create and increase impact of their Personal Brand

Women who would like to be empowered to create success in their lives.

Women who would like to live a life of peace, joy and abundance.

Women who have been through a radical change in life e.g weight loss, divorce/loss of a partner and wanted to get their confidence and life back on track.

For what type of clients are your programs NOT going to work


People who are not coachable and not willing to try something new.

You are not willing to invest time in yourself

You’re afraid to enhance your uniqueness, be authentic, bold and stand out. This programme is for women who are done with fitting in.

People who genuinely need therapy. I am not a trained counsellor and if l feel this is the case, l will refer you to one. My programs works well with counselling, however they are not a replacement for one.

What exactly is Invisible to Irresistible Programme and what does it include

Invisible to Irresistible is my Signature 90 day, 9 Step Programme designed to help ambitious career and entrepreneur women like you, who are sick and tired of being invisible and are ready to step up, to connect with their authentic self, create a unique style they love, enhance their visibility, have unshakable self-confidence so you can step up boldly and get the desired breakthroughs be it in your career, business, personal life and live a fulfilling life, because you worth it!


Yes! Unshakable confidence, authentic Style, increased visibility, career breakthroughs, and a happier life are within reach if: (See Testimonials – insert a link to client testimonials here)

You are tired of feeling invisible and overlooked.

You are tired of living a limited life and under shadow of self-doubte

You’re stirred up and ready to make the necessary shifts and commitments to get the breakthroughs you deserve in career and life

You’re ready to step out and step up

You’ve come to understand that your thoughts and actions are highly linked to your success.

You want to know the secret to authentic Self-Confidence so you can be seen and heard when you speak.


You can expect to:

Discover your Authentic Style

Understand your Body Shape and Complementing outfits

Greater awareness of your Colour season

Mix and Match outfits with Confidence.

Shop confidently and purposely and save a lot of money and time

Raise your self-esteem and self confidence

Create a compelling and authentic Personal Brand

Increase your presence and impact on your Job or Business and be paid as such.

Feel empowered & excited about the future

Connect with your authentic self Gain unshakeable confidence in yourself

Have desired breakthroughs in career or business Health benefits, living stress free life

Creating new standards for yourself

Be clear concise and honest in your communication

Learn how to say NO, and create healthy boundaries

Watch your best life unfold with ease

Create DEEP intimacy and meaning in your personal relationship

Fall back in love with yourself

Live the truest and best version of yourself.

Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can take action and start living your passion and purpose with ease

Get crystal clear on your personal goals.

How quickly can I expect results?

This will depend on how much work you need help with, how quickly you can make those inner shifts and how soon you will be ready to invest in yourself if need be. Most of my clients leave our very first meeting well excited about the future. Style changes will start coming together from 3 weeks onwards bearing in mind that some clients have a bit more work to do first

Do all of your homework. Be totally committed to your success. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All of my clients who have diligently applied every step of Invisible to Irresistible and have successfully seen a great transformation in their lives, couldn’t help but shine with inner self-confidence, created and Authentic Style and fell in love with themselves all over again and felt empowered to step out in various areas of their lives.

Tori, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know you’re the one I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?

Congratulations on making a decision for success! I’m happy to work with you to achieve your desired goals. The best way to work with me is in my 3month Invisible to Unstoppable. But there is also other options if you are looking at less commitment or have a smaller budget. (insert link here to style services) Contact me to arrange a Complimentary call and we will take it from there.

OK, I’m ready to do this for myself, but I have a couple of additional questions. How do l contact you?

Good, sounds like you’re ready to be pulled into your future! Yes, if you have a couple of questions, just email me at or book a Complimentary Clarity call (insert link here to booking online) and I’ll be happy to walk you through the different options to see which one will be the very best for you. I can’t wait to see you shining and am honored to be the one to help you. Let’s get going!

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